
12/11/2025 Thursday
I'm slowly getting the hang of rthis neocities thing and honestly? I'm having a lot of fun! I've been wanting to be a part of the indie for a while now. I even have it as one of my 2026 goals.
The way that goals work for me is that I basically make categories for each of my life and just brain dump a massive list of things I would like to do or get done. Then I highlight the ones that have something in common and make PACT goals for them so they are a little easier to achiecve or at least help me stay motivated through out the year.
PACT goals stand for Purposeful, Actions, Continuos, and Trackackle. I head this sort of goal works far better than SMART Goals for people with audhd since they don't depend on timelines or deadlines (Great if you have a busy life!) or need goals that are internaling motivated versus externaling which can lead to feelings of shame. Shame is a powerful demotivator to get things done tbh, and may scare you from even touching youir goals. Or at least that's what happens to me.
I then make a list in each area, divide them up in smoller peices using goblin tools. and organize them according to season. Each season has it's own theme.
I also begin my goals before the new year starts in small steos. Basically ease my way into things slowly with small changes because I think I read somewhere that small easing into lifestyle changes works better to establish new routines than large sweeping and sudden lifestyle changes? I dont have the links to those resources just yet.